Dear David,
We are ready to downsize from the large family home we have lived in for several decades. At this point, we wish to enjoy a carefree lifestyle with no snow to shovel or grass to cut. We would also like to do some travelling. A condo seems like a good fit, except that our adult son lives with us and will continue to do so. Is it possible to get a condo townhouse with two separate units, so he would be able to cook for himself and have a sense of independence? This is not a deal breaker, but certainly would be ideal. – PLANNING FOR THE FUTURE
DEAR PLANNING: The key to a successful move is having a full understanding of your options, and fortunately, there are several communities in our region that offer carefree adult living. Finding a condo townhouse with two working kitchens will definitely be a significant obstacle, so I’m happy to hear that this feature is not a deal breaker for you.
Over the years, I’ve had numerous clients in situations like yours, where a family member (young or old) is part of an extended family unit. I recently moved one couple to a retirement-style townhouse complex that had the amenities you’re looking for, including staff to cut the grass, shovel snow, and orchestrate outdoor maintenance. The arrangement freed the homeowners to come and go as they pleased, without the burden of monitoring and upkeeping the exterior of their home. In their case, the unit had a walk-out basement with a large recreation room, plenty of windows, a large bedroom, full bathroom, and a workshop area. It was ideal for their family in that it provided a fairly complete and somewhat separate living space.
Because most condo complexes do not intend to have separate rental units, they generally do not lend themselves to the addition of a secondary kitchen. An entertainment area in the rec room with a wet bar and microwave is one thing, but this type of setup is meant for entertaining and convenience, and is not conducive to full-on meal preparation.
That said, some out-of-the-box thinking may land you exactly what you want. If a fully separate unit with a kitchen would check all the boxes for you and your son, a duplexed bungalow might be the right fit. In this scenario, it’s entirely possible to contract out snow removal and exterior maintenance, so your home has many of the amenities a condo complex would offer. At the same time, the duplexed secondary unit could give your son the autonomy he desires.
When families have a loved one they wish to keep close, and especially if living assistance is needed, purchasing two units in the same apartment-style condo complex may also be a solution. A two-bedroom unit for mom and dad, and perhaps a studio apartment or one-bedroom for their loved one can provide close proximity, and also a sense of independence.
PRO TIP: There are an infinite number of extended or multi-family living situations. The key to finding the right real estate fit is planning ahead and fully understanding what your region has to offer. #Advice #AskDavid #TheNegotiator
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